Enough and Not Enough

Since we are digging in to the world of adoption this month, I want to share a conversation I’ve had with all members of the adoption triad... I’ve seen how powerful it is when adoptive parents in particular can embrace this tension, that you are enough, whole, loved, lovely, capable, and precious....  And yet you can’t be everything that your child by adoption needs. You’re set up for failure if that’s your goal.  Your kiddos...