I was feeling grumpy about a minor inconvenience when I heard the tragic news out of Uvalde, Texas. And this on the heels of the horrific hate crime in Buffalo on Saturday... As a mom, I just wanted to pull my babies close and weep for the parents who were learning that they would never get to do that again. As a therapist, I want to have open office hours for all the grief and...
Hello, Anger
Anger is everywhere. From a brain perspective, it makes sense. Stress has been high these past couple of years. Our brains and bodies don’t automatically recognize the difference between physical danger and feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or anxious. Maybe that’s why signs like this have been popping up, a gentle reminder not to let our stress and anger bubble over onto others! Unfortunately, being kind doesn’t solve everything. Don’t get me wrong…kindness matters! But there’s still...
The Brain-Building Power of “Serve and Return”
To my nerdy little heart’s delight… It’s Brain Awareness Week!!! Brain Awareness Week is a global campaign to increase public awareness of the progress and benefits of brain research. I have seen time and time again just how profoundly life can change when we apply a little user-friendly brain science, so I want to share that with YOU!! Brain science essentials to make your life easier… Let’s start with this podcast episode where I talk...
Name It to Tame It
I know we therapists talk about feelings a lot, but there's a reason! Did you know that just putting a name or label to what you are feeling reduces the activity in the emotion center of your brain? Sounds like magic! But it’s just user-friendly brain science. Maybe you’ve heard the phrase "What's mentionable is manageable." Drs. Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson boiled down this complicated neurobiological process to a strategy they called Name...